Choosing the right marriage partner means more than compiling a wish list of traits that Mr. or Mrs. Right should have, and then searching for that person. If we were more realistic about who we are, would the person who fits this list desire to marry us? Lisa Aiken PhD, realigns our perspective on the balance between giving and our own expectations of getting. Also hear tips on carefully checking out a prospective date.
Feeling angry and want to 'let it all out?' Unsurprisingly, this attitude is not very Jewish, and can rapidly lead down the slippery slope. On the other hand we all know how unhealthy holding anger in. Lisa Aiken PhD, shows a way to find the hidden reasons for our feelings, and demonstrates communication skills that express what you feel without anger, or having others feel threatened.
Somewhere between all the bandaids, meals, and baths do you ever stop to wonder if you could be doing a better job with your children? Lisa Aiken PhD speaks as a parent who knows all too well the daily struggles of raising kids, and the burnout that usually accompanies it. How do we show our love while reducing our pressure as we move them towards what we believe is best for them?
Living just for yourself is understandably limiting. Lisa Aiken inspires us with stories of women who created unique ways to expand their boundaries by employing the three pillars of Jewish life: Torah, prayer, and acts of loving-kindness. A great class for women to freshen up their lives using the unique gifts God installed within each of us.
Far from the view that traditional Jewish women are drudges chained to their kitchen and diaper pail, a more accurate way to describe them is like that of an officer directing troop movement from a command post. Lisa Aiken flips the notion that Judaism strips its women of their power, and proves how their influence effects major change. Another disturbing question she tackles is why women are excluded from time bound mitzvot such as tefillin and tzitzis?
Although not dressed in a blue cape or having the ability to fly, isn't a woman who is working, cleaning, cooking and caring for children all day long truly entitled to be called a 'Superwoman'? But then again, is pushing oneself to the point of collapse the right way to go either? And when is saying 'no' to doing certain things more appropriate? Hear a discussion that sympathizes with all the responsibilities a woman should carry, while keeping cognizant of their human limitations.
One reason many find prayer so difficult is that the heartfelt moments we have with God are usually occasions of desperate pleas for help. Through personal stories and moving anecdotes, Lisa Aiken explains what it takes to initiate and develop a warm intimate communication with God. How much would it improve the energy of your day to be looking forward to a nourishing recharge along the way?
Change usually scares people. Lisa Aiken, PhD. gives a close-up look at why those nearest and dearest can feel so threatened when seeing their loved ones changing so much. What must the ba’alei teshuvah keep in mind to help their families make peace with this new reality? Learn to also appreciate the emotional choices your loved ones are making - even if they may not be living up to your standards. An excellent class
All too often Darwin’s theory of evolution is taught as the gospel truth - although it’s not as airtight as it sounds. Dr Aiken examines the Torah’s creation narrative and closes the gap by showing new scientific discoveries. As a thinking adult, you may find the Bible story to be more rational now then when you heard it as a child.
Some women find they prefer having a suitable role model in mind for learning Torah. Lisa Aiken PhD also examines Chava's role, and her involvement in the first sin of Creation. She then looks at the mass objectification of woman and the worlds downward spiral. Hear also a few powerful lessons our matriarchs learned during their turbulent lives.