You did a favor for your neighbor and now she refuses to help you in return. If your immediate reaction is 'revenge' will it sadly turn into another long-term 'grudge'? Chaya Rochel Blatt looks at these two thorny mitzvos and the inner passions that often lead to a boiling point. Hear practical strategies to prevent and undo these endless struggles of animosity with relatives, friends and those you do business with.
Mrs. Blatt is a different breed of storyteller. In each tale that she skillfully weaves hear the underlying rules for seeing the good in others, and how to reframe similar rough situations you encounter. Also, how possible is it to see true beauty in another from your first sour impression? This may include a friend, your spouse or even yourself.
Shmiras HaLashon has become a widespread idea, and most people are aware that speaking negatively about others is unacceptable. But how responsible are we if we are stuck in a social situation where others are mouthing off in a way we can’t but help to hear? Listen to some vivid illustrations of how to extricate yourself from hearing Lashon Harah in many scenarios.
Ever notice how different people perceive the same circumstances and events in a totally different way? Mrs. Blatt offers this simple test. The way we perceive something will likely be reflected in the very words we use to describe it. An amazing class exploring how the words we choose not only define us, but also create us.
What would you think if you saw a king or queen chomping on a piece of gum? If you appreciate this disgrace to the 'crown', how can we as direct descendants of great people - kings and queens in our own right - say and do things beneath our dignity? Catch a glimpse of your royal soul, and begin living with your tremendous endowment. A gem.
Mrs. Blatt says it herself: "I'm not going to offer inspiration, (but of course she does) I just want to be practical." She plays out how to nip it in the bud, and within the same breadth lets the offender know with total respect why their words are inappropriate. Once you hear her style, you'll see how easy your words will be accepted - leaving little room for most counter excuses. Here's your chance to help those you love most without needing to grin and bear all their derogatory remarks.
"Did you hear about ...?" is a common way we often greet each other when we want to share some juicy information about someone else's private sorrow or misfortune. In light of our stature as Jews possessing special neshamos, how can we combat our inner sense of curiosity, and our desire to share all the interesting news around us? Hear the greater 'news' Rebbetzin Blatt has to share about Lashon Hara.
Words never die, but once said their messages can fly way out of control - with unpredictable repercussions. This frightening image rings true for everyone who has hurt someone far away without intending to. Learn practical ways to control your being the cause of such harmful information, and how you can ward off negative feelings towards others that suddenly come flying into your airwaves.
One snide remark, one scornful look, and a person's self-esteem can be shattered. Words cut very deep, so deep in fact that we can be totally unaware of their harm. Chaya Rochel Blatt's enthusiasm makes this class a living experience of feeling the many subtle nuances and interesting stories on speech.
Since we are all children of a God who always sees our good, wouldn't this feeling of being loved make it easier for us to see others in a more positive light? Mrs. Blatt demonstrates practical tools for seeing another's good - even if it is extremely difficult for you to be with them. Listen in for the focus we need, and how to chip down past grievances.